Get Back Together With Your Ex-Girlfriend As A Result Of Being Less Attainable And An Increased Challenge For Her

You were a challenge for her. You had a high significance and she had been irresistibly drawn to you. Now she's gone and you are saying: "I want my ex back!"

I'm preparing to make a wild guess here, but could it be that as time went on, you became less and less of a challenge for her? And could it be that right now, you're absolutely no challenge for her? And also that she knows if she wanted to, at any moment she could get you back again and wrapped around her finger just by saying the word?

I'm going to be a bit crude here, however as you may already know, to become a challenge once more you need to demonstrate to your ex that her sexuality has no control over you any more. Take into account what it's like when you are stalking her with not returned phone calls, voice mails, text messages, and emails. And after that think about what it's like when you keep doing it (as a lot of guys do) even after she's told you to stop. You will be suggesting to the woman that you are a low-value guy with no other dating options.

She won't respect you again until you refuse her dominance over you. Luckily you are doing that now by not directly corresponding with her. The last thing she needs to hear from you now is how much "I want my ex back", so stay away from her.

Make sure you stay 100% strict with your communication cut-off. Do not be "friends" with her, as that rewards your ex with the ongoing approval of power over you while giving her a comfortable excuse to stay broken up. (She reasons that she's letting you down easy doing this, assuaging virtually any remorse she may feel.)

Then again, make sure to keep her locked in with your stuff. Most likely a lot of your belongings are at her residence, and vice versa. She could even owe you money as well. She may ask a mutual friend of yours to ask you if you want all of it back.

The best answer to this is simply "No, not yet. The rationale is simply because her holding onto your things (and you holding onto hers) is still locking you two in and ensuring future communication. You do NOT want to give her the psychological closure that would come from settling your accounts.

For the up coming three weeks, you have to fully recognize -- and embrace -- the fact that you're an independent man now. Take what happened with your ex-girlfriend and learn from it. You have a great chance to revolutionize your life which will finally allow you to get your exgirlfriend back.

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